Women should be able to open things

I'm pretty annoyed today, for nominal reasons ranging between ‘petty’ and ‘doesn’t even make sense’. I’m not entirely sure how or if to take oneself seriously when one has such absurd grievances. But that’s a question for another time - I’m here now to tell you about my one potentially valid peeve. I understand that gender is complicated and difficult, for the whole species (and honestly probably so for some other species). And it can be hard to tell exactly if anyone is behaving badly regarding it, at least in my modern bubble.